Parental Playbook: Reignite That Spark!
- by WONDERMOM
- Sept. 20, 2023
Hey Mamas and Papas! In the whirlwind of diapers, playdates, and homework, have you ever paused and wondered, “Where did our candle-lit dinners vanish?” or “Why are movie nights now limited to animated films with singing animals?” It’s high time we hop off the parent-train for an evening and bring back romance!
1. Reminisce & Rekindle: Start your date night by walking down memory lane. Visit the cafe where you first met, or the park where that awkward yet adorable first kiss happened. Reliving those moments is a sure-fire way to bring back romance.
2. Experience Together: Instead of the usual dinner date, how about signing up for a salsa class? Or maybe a pottery workshop? When you learn or experience something new together, it strengthens the bond and sparks fresh conversations.
3. Indulgent Night In: Who says dates need to be outdoors? Once the kids are asleep, transform your living room into a personal theater. Binge on that series you’ve wanted to watch, coupled with popcorn and cozy blankets.
4. Tech-free Time: Remember when uninterrupted conversations were a thing? For just one evening, lock away those phones. The e-mails, social media updates, and even those cute cat videos can wait. Tonight’s all about you two!
5. Little Notes & Surprises: Leave little notes of appreciation for each other during the week leading up to the date. It’s a buildup of anticipation and a reminder of the love and admiration you hold for one another.
As parents, life often turns into a juggling act. But amongst the chaos, finding pockets of time for each other is like finding that missing sock in the laundry – rare but oh-so-rewarding!
For an extra sprinkle of fun, here’s a challenge for you: The next time you’re out on a date, switch your usual roles! If Dad always orders dessert, let Mom pick. If Mom’s the map-reader on road trips, hand Dad the map and watch the hilarity ensue. It’s playful, fun, and a fantastic way to see everyday things from a fresh perspective.
So, gear up, lovely parents! Slide into that dress you’ve been saving for a special day or that shirt that makes you feel dapper. It’s time to take a breather, hold hands, share a laugh, and dance like no one’s watching. Remember, the parent capes can hang in the closet for an evening, while the dancing shoes take the spotlight!