Discovering the Core Types of Parenting
- by WONDERMOM
- Sept. 26, 2023
Parenting is an art, with every artist having their unique style. Dive into the vibrant world of motherhood and kids to unravel the various types of parenting. Every parent aims to do their best for their children, and understanding your style can make the journey even more delightful!
1. Authoritative Parenting:
This is often dubbed as the “gold standard” of parenting styles. Authoritative parents set clear expectations and rules for their children but also show empathy and understanding. Communication flows freely, ensuring kids understand the reasons behind the rules. The mantra? “I set the rules, but let’s chat about why.”
2. Authoritarian Parenting:
Not to be mistaken with the authoritative style, authoritarian parents are more about “because I said so.” These parents have strict rules and high expectations, often with little room for flexibility. Open dialogue is typically limited. It’s like running a tight ship where the captain’s word is final.
3. Permissive Parenting:
Ever heard the phrase, “kids will be kids”? Well, that’s the permissive parenting anthem. Parents in this category tend to be more friends than disciplinarians. While they shower their children with love and fewer rules, they might sometimes miss out on setting important boundaries.
4. Uninvolved Parenting:
As the name suggests, these parents tend to be less involved in their child’s day-to-day life. It doesn’t mean they don’t care; they might just be overwhelmed with other aspects of their life or unsure about how to connect. The motto here might be “do your own thing, and I’ll do mine.”
5. Attachment Parenting:
Snuggle up! Attachment parenting is all about creating a deep emotional bond. It often involves practices like co-sleeping, extended breastfeeding, and baby-wearing. Parents adopting this style believe in the importance of a close physical and emotional connection with their kids.
6. Helicopter Parenting:
Keep the binoculars ready! Helicopter parents are always hovering, closely monitoring every activity and situation their child encounters. The intent is pure – ensuring safety and success for their child. However, it can sometimes feel like an over-watchful eye from the skies above!
Now that you’ve had a whirlwind tour through the diverse landscape of types of parenting, where do you see yourself? Maybe you’re a delightful mix or still discovering your rhythm. Remember, there’s no ‘one-size-fits-all’ approach to parenting. Every family is unique, every child different, and every parent special in their own way.