5-Step Guide to Nurturing Independence & Resilience in Kids: Dubai Edition!
- by WONDERMOM
- Sept. 23, 2023
Hey there supermums and dads of Dubai!
We all want our children to be fierce little lions, roaring with confidence and bravado. We wish for them to face life’s sandstorms with grace and come out of them shining even brighter. In short, we all aspire to nurture independence and resilience in our kids. Now, how can we achieve this? Grab a cuppa and dive in with our “Dubai Edition” guide!
1. Allow Them Their ‘Desert’ Moments ️
Remember your last desert safari? How the vastness, unpredictability, and challenges of the desert made the journey so much more worthwhile? Life, in many ways, is like that unpredictable desert. So, let your children have their ‘desert moments’. It’s okay if they occasionally stumble, get a little lost, or feel the heat. Every stumble teaches them how to get back up stronger.
2. Involve Them in Decisions
Next time you’re planning a family day out, perhaps to the Dubai Mall or a relaxing beach day at JBR, involve your kids in the planning. By letting them choose activities, or even what to pack in the picnic basket, they learn responsibility and decision-making. Plus, who knows, you might just end up discovering a hidden gem of a spot they suggest!
3. Cultivate Problem-Solving Skills
Whether it’s figuring out how to fit that large toy camel into a small toy box or navigating disagreements with siblings over which movie to watch, always encourage your children to think, brainstorm, and solve problems themselves. You’ll be amazed at their innovative solutions!
4. Celebrate Their Efforts, Not Just Achievements
Here in Dubai, we love our celebrations – from National Day parades to Eid festivities. In the same spirit, let’s celebrate the efforts our kids put into things. Whether it’s a drawing, a school project, or simply tying their shoelaces, praise their hard work and dedication. This reinforces the idea that the journey is as important as the destination.
5. Establish Routines But Be Open To Adventure!
Routine gives children a sense of security. Regular meal, play, and bedtime schedules are essential. But, just as Dubai offers a world of adventure at every corner (think Skydive Dubai or that spontaneous trip to the Global Village), sprinkle in unexpected adventures in their routine. This balance keeps things exciting and teaches them adaptability.
Now, while we may not have wrapped this up with a glittery bow of a conclusion, here’s a sprinkle of fun: next time you’re out with your kids in the heart of Dubai, perhaps the Dubai Frame or the iconic Burj Khalifa, challenge them to make one independent decision during the day. It’s a step towards nurturing a confident, resilient little champ!